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Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth |
Dear Dr. TRuth,
I have been with this guy for 2 years and
he told my mom that he was madly in love with me and
he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.
Two days leter he tells me that it is over.
He tells our friends that he still loves me and I want him back.
I have my suspicions that he likes my best friend and I
think that they are dating behind my back.
He won't talk to me speak to me or even look at me.
Could it be something that I did?
Could it be that he is afraid of commitment?
I want him back and I don't know what to
say do or anything because I don't want him to think
that I am harrassing him.
Is it really over?
Should I let him have his space?
Please help me.
"Lost"
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Dear "Lost"
How despicable of him! And this doesn't say much
about your "best" friend either.
This is a double betrayal. Your best friend is going out with your
boyfriend.
The first thing you need to do is find out
the truth.
If she is really your friend, ask her to
tell you what is going on.
She owes you that much.
After that you will be able to make a more informed
decision about your boyfriend.
On the other hand, he
has stopped talking to you and refuses to discuss how
he feels. That is actually abusive treatment.
If he
has been with you for two years, why would he just cut
you off? This makes no sense!
My guess is that he
still cares for you but wants to be free and doesn't
know how to be honest with you.
I wish I had better
news for you it does sound like you need to let him
go. Not only has he broken up with you, but he has
done it in the cruelest way possible!
I know you
still care for him but please don't blame yourself for
this. He is the one that has changed, not you!
I
think at this point it would be better to cut your
losses than to degrade yourself by chasing someone who
won't even speak to you. This is the ultimate
disrespect.
Save your pride and ignore his behavior.
Act with dignity and, please, you must believe you
deserve better treatment than this!
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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